The word “unprecedented” seemed to come out of nowhere and quickly become overused. Unprecedented is defined as “never done or known before”.1 There is no arguing that word perfectly fits the time in which we are now living. Never before in history have countries across the world been more or less shut down on this scale from a worldwide pandemic. Satellite pictures show past and present shots of once bustling places eerily empty and still. Life as we all knew it seemed to virtually change overnight.
My family had reservations at a Tennessee state park for a long weekend with friends. All of us had been looking forward to this vacation as it had been about half a year since our first caravan camping trip together. Traveling with another family and staying at the same campground had been so much fun that we were all excited to do it again while checking out a different park. We had neighboring sites, and we had planned our daily menus to share meals as well as the cooking. As the time drew closer, we all realized that even though it would be a huge disappointment, this trip would have to be postponed indefinitely.
News was spreading that more and more states were closing their parks to day use and/or overnight campers. Although I had received an email stating that Tennessee state parks were remaining open, it seemed imminent that they would eventually follow suit and close their parks as well. We didn’t want that to happen while we were actually at one of them. The thought of packing up, heading out, unpacking, setting up, and then being turned out – during a rainy weekend, was not welcoming. And so it was agreed, we made the cancellation.
Officials were recommending people not travel. Larger areas in the states were already beginning to “stay at home” and “shelter in place”. There was talk of possible travel restrictions. People began stocking up and store shelves began to empty. No one was sure how far or long restrictions would be put in place. I seldom pay attention to “the news” anymore as it seems to have strayed far off course from truthful, factual journalism into strongly opinionated and even imagined sensationalism. (My apologies to any journalists out there if you find offence, this is merely my general, overall opinion; and I hope you are a genuine fact finder and reporter!) In times like these, you feel the need to stay informed. So we did our best to remain calm, tune in for updates, and do what our government leaders asked.
During the onset, we were at a family owned campground in a covered site with a screened in porch. If we had to stay in one place for the duration, it seemed a good place to be. This is where we would weather the storm of a worldwide pandemic, possible food, soap & toilet paper shortages, and the unknown.
In mid March, over a third of all states had already closed their state parks. Tennessee state parks did wind up closing, not only to campers, but also to day visitors. I later spoke to a lady whose family was at Rock Island State Park (where we had planned to visit) and were asked to leave when the closure happened. Schools, of course, had shut down as well as many businesses. Food establishments shut their doors to dine-in customers, but many began offering curbside pick up and even delivery. Now places and employees had begun to be divided into essential and non-essential with non-essentials closing, being laid off or furloughed. With so many children and adults at home, unemployment soared.
April brought extended closures and increased restrictions as well as mixed messages about the corona virus. I tried to glean the information for truth, prepare for the worst, and hope for the best. We continued our homeschooling lessons as if nothing had changed. I was grateful that we already had that routine in place and that my kids’ education would not be interrupted or thrown off course by what had ultimately closed public schools for the remainder of the school year. I found that to be a two-fold blessing in that it also kept our minds occupied with good things instead of idle time.
My youngest child happened to be reading the book Pollyanna for her English Language Arts course as all this has been transpiring. If you have never read the book or watched the movie, it centers around a young girl named Pollyanna who plays “the glad game” and shares this game with almost everyone who happens into her life. The gist of this game is to always look for a reason to be glad in every circumstance. What a timely message it has been. I highly recommend reading this book as I found it even better than the Disney movie I had watched as a child, which was also uplifting.
Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.
I Thessalonians 5:16-18 NIV
In times of trouble, it’s beneficial to count your blessings and keep a grateful heart. I am thankful that although my husband has had to leave our home for his “essential” work, our income has not been affected. I am extremely grateful that when we sold our home and bought our travel trailer, our remaining mortgage was paid off and we became debt free. I appreciate that as a homeschooling family, we were unaffected by mass public school closings and were able to maintain our normal routine. I am glad that when so many full time RVers were being displaced due to parks and campgrounds closing, we happened to find ourselves in a secure site. I am joyful that even though churches were asked to close their doors and parking lots, we have been able to congregate online for worship and the Word.
For months prior to all of this, I had been meditating on how busy lives are in this day and age. Often both parents work, children go to school and afterward are carpooled to a variety of lessons and extracurricular activities almost every day of the week. I have known families that eat fast food dinners in the minivan from one stop to the next. Homework is done the same way, if not late at night or early in the morning before school. Bedtimes are late, mornings are rushed, and weekends are a blur in what many see as a full and active life. Even when we are intentional, it can be hard to say “no” or avoid becoming overextended in our schedules as well as our finances. Most people long for a slower time like the “good ole days”, but as nostalgic as that seems, it can seem equally impossible. And yet without intent, look what COVID-19 has done. It has brought families home together. We are eating home-cooked meals. Our busyness has been replaced with leisure time. Time seems to have slowed down.
Do I want to get back on the road again? Yes. I really do. I would like a change of scenery, and I am looking forward to our next RV move. All good things come in time as they say. So until then, I will be patient and I will do my best to enjoy every moment with my family; because I believe it is a gift. For now, we are simply living… learning… and loving. Later on, we’ll see y’all down the road!
1 lexico.com/en/definition/unprecedented 5/3/20